Flirting is the gentle art of letting a person know that you are interested in them – whether for a passing affair or a bonding relationship that can be decided later.
But flirting can be tricky too. Especially when you miss to register that someone is flirting with you and you realize it later – only to regret. Now, wouldn’t it be great if you could crack the secret on flirting right? Fret not, help is at hand.
1. Eye Contact Is A Must
If you walk into a party and see someone attractive, don’t look away. Try to make eye contact with that person. Making eye contact is the best way of flirting. It melts the other person and makes you feel like getting close to that person.
2. Smile But Not A Lot
Smile is the best thing to do after that quintessential eye contact. Smile, not just with your lips but with your eyes also. That’s the best way of attracting a person and it makes you feel more confident. Let your smile light up the room and make it comfortable while flirting. It fills that very moment with more emotions.
3. Move Your Body
Moving your body is easier than it sounds. When your eyes are looking at that person with a confident smile on your face, your body will follow and do its own dance. Descend into your heart and trust your body. Flirting is a natural bodily response to external stimuli that activates the good hormones. You just have to go with it.
4. Speak Up, Show Some Confidence
Girls love it when a man compliment them. If a guy starts a conservation, it instantly goes in your favour. A simple ‘Hi’ can add a much to your flirt efforts. But remember less is more.
5. Introduce Yourself And Maintain Some Mystery
While you are trying to flirt, make sure you introduce yourself and for a start, the first name is sufficient. Remember it’s a ‘flirtatious’ moment not a business meeting. Besides, you’re not wearing a name tag so make it easy to remember.
6. Ignite A Conversation
When all the above mentioned steps are done and everything is in your favour (her smile will give you, your answer), just make sure you don’t let it end over here. Ignite a conversation which helps you in flirting more. Avoid any debates or harsh criticisms and certainly no complaints. In fact, if she begins to complain then I would take it as a warning sign and immediately turn off the flirt switch.
7. Break The Touch Barrier
Don’t be over, but a bit of touching is more than enough. And it should also look like you are complimenting her. But if you’ll over do it, it will ruin all your efforts of flirting, may be with someone else.
8. keep It Short And Sweet
You should always know that to keep the demand high, supply should be short. Keep the sensual brush with human nature short and brief. No dragging it on or the rush to create an impromptu date.
9. Wrap It UP
Wrap it up and don’t forget to ask for her number. Flirting would be a waste if you don’t ask for it.